Who we are

Sacred Encounter ministers are part of a global community whose ministry for Christ and his Church through the Centre for Applied Carmelite Spirituality (CACS) involves facilitating a sacred encounter for those amongst whom we minister. Some of us are spiritual directors in one-to-one or group direction, hosts for the Carmelite Contemplative Circle, facilitators for individual or group retreats, accompaniers on the Spiritual Direction Formation Programme, and reflective supervisors for spiritual directors.

Our Mission

To provide a safe and sacred space where people can encounter the God who is love.

• To support spiritual formation and renewal drawing on the venerable Carmelite tradition.

• To offer a contemplative approach to soul care ministries.

• To assist people to discover the inviolable sacredness of their core identity as ‘beloved of God.’

Our Aim

We aim to help people deepen their experience of the mystery of God and of themselves in a safe and sacred space; an experience that is always a sacred encounter.

Our Covenant

In the footsteps of our saintly forbears in Carmel and living a life of allegiance to Jesus Christ (cf. 2 Cor 10:5), we the members of the Community of Sacred Encounter Ministers adhere to this Covenant: 

Intimacy with God 

We strive to deepen our intimacy with God who dwells within (cf. John 14:3) through commitment to a lifestyle nurtured by prayer, the word of God and the sacred mysteries. 

• Human Flourishing 

We serve people considering their wellbeing and flourishing as priority; and we respect their views and differences; maintaining a professional relationship with them and, supporting them to avail of their own inner resources or to find assistance from others in the appropriate area of competence required. 

• Dignity of Persons 

We work to promote the dignity and worth of all human beings as beloved of God who in their deepest reality are of magnificent beauty and marvellous capacity. 

• Ministerial Competence 

We recognise that soul-work is to walk on holy ground and so the attendant need to continually grow in ministerial competence and theologically informed best practice, commit to ongoing resourcing of our practice through study programmes and retreat days. 

Spiritual Charism 

We acknowledge the ministry of spiritual direction as a spiritual charism freely given and so we exercise this sacred ministry in freedom and for free according to the divine directive: “Freely you have received; freely give” (Mt 10:8); receiving with gratitude whatever may be given in appreciation (Mt 10:10; Lk 10:7). All who are thirsty have been invited to come to the waters; and “you who have no money, come, buy, and eat! Come, buy wine and milk without money and without cost.” (Isa 55:1) 

• Accountability 

We value the support of spiritual companionship found in our pilgrim and learning community whose integrity is founded in keeping our covenant commitments to one another; and providing opportunities for accountable ministry practice through peer supervision. 

• Spiritual Friendship 

We honour the Teresian ideal that, “In this house, all must be friends, all must be loved, all must be held dear, all must be helped.”


Our Spiritual Directors

Fr Alexander Ezechukwu
(Oxford)

Fr Alex is a Discalced Carmelite priest and the director of CACS. Biblical scholar and historian by training. Spiritual Direction certification through …

Fr Kelvin Ekhoegbe
(Oxford)

Fr Kelvin is a Discalced Carmelite priest and a formator on the CACS Spiritual Direction Formation Programme. Accredited member of the Association of Pastoral …

Fr Yamai Bature

Fr Yamai is a Discalced Carmelite priest and trained in pastoral supervision. He has extensive experience in spiritual direction, supervision and individual retreat guidance.

Candida Kirkpatrick
(Phoenix, Arizona)

I have been married for 30 years with two adult children. I have been a member of OCDS for over 20 years. I love to hike, travel and learn about other cultures, …

Jane-Marie Rief
(Minnesota, USA)

I am a retired software engineer and agile software coach.  I have a bachelor’s degree in Computer Science and a Master’s in Business, a Project Management Professional and Agile Coach certifications. 

Marc Nomadicus
(Africa)

Marc is a wilderness guide and spiritual mentor who has always felt closest to God …

Lynn Miyake
(New Mexico, USA)

Lynn specializes in Carmelite Spirituality, Christian meditation, contemplation, and inner sanctification. She serves as a spiritual director for individuals and groups….

Breda Cuniffe, OCDS
(Glasgow)

Being accompanied by a Spiritual Director for many years has led to the kind of inner freedom that still takes me by surprise and continues to be an ongoing source of sustenance, humour and all kinds of discovery.

Karen Shurety
(Haverhill, Suffolk)

I am a lay missionary and Spiritual Director in the, Roman Catholic Tradition. I trained as a spiritual director on the 2 year course run by CACS. I have a bachelor of …

Martha Hanley
(Cedar Rapids, Iowa)

I am a 2023 graduate of the CACS Spiritual Direction Formation Programme and a Secular Carmelite. My interests include the impact of disability, particularly …

Marian Long
(Leigh-on-Sea, Essex)

For several years I worked in the UK as a lay missionary in evangelisation and am now parish based. My spirituality has been formed within the …

Michael Woodward
(Abergavenny, Wales)

Michael Woodward has a love of both Carmelite and Benedictine spirituality. He was elected first leader of the Lay Community of Saint Benedict in 2003.

Sue Watson
(Powys)

During spiritual direction I offer a safe space to explore your spiritual journey towards a deeper relationship with God. We will take time to explore what God is doing …

Rosaleen Cowie
(Buckinghamshire)

I trained originally as a Nurse and went on to work in the community as a Health Visitor and Community Practice Teacher.

Ben O’Neill
(London)

I am dedicated to guiding individuals on their spiritual journey through the ancient practice of Contemplative Spiritual Accompaniment. I offer a space where we can …

Ellen Sarewitz
(Hereford)

I live in a small village above the river Wye where I moved from Cambridge 6 years ago. From a rational, scientific anti-religion background I gradually found – it was …

Thelma Rogers
(Bristol)

I live in the Bristol and South Gloucestershire area and am a graduate of the Carmelite Spiritual Direction Formation Programme and the Carmelite Reflective Supervision Programme …

Martin Faingnart
(Bruges, Belgium)

I am Fr. Martin prior and novice master in Carmel community of Bruges. I was ordained priest in 2015. Followed a 2-year programme of spirituality in Toulouse (France). …

Heather Ward
(Essex)

Qualified in social work; trained with & counselled for Clinical Theology Association; BA in English Lit; PhD English & Theology; MEd in RE & Catechesis (Maryvale)..

Maria Micheletti
(Nottingham)

I am a member of the Secular Order of Discalced Carmelites with a Diploma in Spiritual Direction in the Carmelite tradition from CACS….

Anastasia Selby
(Sandbach)

I have experience of assisting individuals having worked in the Probation and Prison Service. I returned to the catholic faith after being away from it for a …

Kate Keefe
(Oxfordshire)

I experience life as one of movement, hence the photo of myself in a car. Central to that movement is my growing relationship in intimacy with God which …

Simon Cocksedge
(Derbyshire)

Formerly a physician, I am now working as a parish priest in the Church of England. Married with three children, I have been offering Spiritual Accompaniment …

Vivien Foster
(Oxford)

Vivien is a Carmelite Secular with a particular love for the spirituality of St John of the Cross. She completed CACS Spiritual Direction Formation Programme …

Fr. Liam Finnerty
(Oxford)

Discalced Carmelite priest and a formator on the CACS Spiritual Direction Formation Programme. Fr Liam brings many years of experience in pastoral and retreat ministry …

Anne Burr
(Howell, Michigan USA)

Anne completed the Carmelite SDFP in 2025 and provides SD both in person and via Zoom. She also facilitates Contemplative Circle small groups at her local parish and is in formation as a Secular Carmelite. …

Fr Luke Dominic Onwe
(Oxfordshire)

I am a Discalced Carmelite Friar and a priest with many years of experience in spiritual and retreat directions as well as spiritual accompaniment. I offer …

Ian Adams
(UK)

Ian has enjoyed a deep sense of belonging to the Carmelite tradition since reading the poems of St John of the Cross in 1996, and then making the first of many retreats at the priory at Boars Hill. …

Lizzie Sudlow
(UK)

After many years immersed in Carmelite spirituality and lay communities in the UK and Italy, drawing from this contemplative tradition, Lizzie offers a gentle, reflective space for both spiritual direction and pastoral supervision….

Paul Horcher
(Chicago, US)

I am a cradle Xatholic who has been married to my wife Lisa for 38 years. We have  6 children and 6 grandchildren with more on the way. I reside in the Chicago IL area …

Michelle Duval OCDS

(US)

As a Secular Carmelite and graduate of the Carmelite Institute of Spirituality (CACS), I offer spiritual direction grounded in the rich, contemplative tradition of Carmel.  

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